August 7th, 2016
Actually, Scrivener does everything I want except mirrored margins - that's the extra margin for binding that alternates between odd and even pages.
I got the mirrored margins working, and page numbering, and alternating Title/Author on the page headers, but for some reason, despite hours of trial-and-error, I couldn't get Word to do the page number correctly. It kept leaving extra numbers in the front matter. Here's how I finally got it to play nice: